Love and Marriage, goes together like a horse and carriage, you cant have one with out the other.
The catchy song rings a good point.
Marriage is a holy unification where two become one. It is important to understand that this love is not what we see in movies. It is not rainbows and butterflies. Love is a sacrifice, a compromise, and a fight. We can not come to know this kind of love until we know the love the lord pours out to us.
“For he so loved the world that he gave his only son”
Now that is love! Come to know the love that God pours out on us so that you can love your spouse.